In class today, we talked about how someone's attitude towards a family crisis can affect the outcome.  I believe in that.  We can look at things in good ways and in bad ways, and I believe that the more good we see in things, the better our lives will be and things will have a better outcome.  Even though it is hard for families that go through crisis, I believe it is important to try to look at things in an eternal perspective, and try to see things the way our Heavenly Father might see them.  A lot of people ask "why is this happening to me, to us?" but maybe our Heavenly Father has a special purpose for why things happen to us, and I think it is important to keep Him in our thoughts and remember that there is a greater purpose, even if we don't see it.